Hey, Dad. Did you just get laid out of the blue and feel surprised, thinking, “Oh, things are going really well with my wife”? You might want to check your checking accounts. It’s a good idea to review your credit card balances and statements to see if there’s anything unusual that you weren’t aware of. You could be facing the possibility of getting blindsided by a divorce filing.

This happens more often than you might think. In my experience, if you’ve been having a rocky relationship and intimacy has dried up—sort of like the Sahara Desert—and then you suddenly get intimate, that’s diversion sex, not makeup sex. It’s a tactic to distract you from what’s really going on.

Pay attention to what’s happening. Look at your checking accounts and credit card statements to find out the truth. If you don’t, you could end up blindsided. You’ve been warned.

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Have a great day, and remember, I think you’re fucking awesome!