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In 90 Days, Become the Calm, Prepared, and Impossible to Rattle Dad, Striding Into Family Court.

Even if right now one text from your ex wrecks your whole day, your paperwork is a mess, and the thought of speaking in front of a judge makes your stomach drop.

 

90 days to walk into court calm, prepared, and ready to fight for your kids.

 

Hey, it's David.

I've been a family law attorney in California for 27 years. Here's something most lawyers won't tell you:

The dad with the best paperwork doesn't always come across best in court.

I've watched guys with perfect binders fall apart the second the other side said something unfair. They raised their voice. They interrupted. They rolled their eyes. And the judge saw all of it.

I've also watched dads with simple cases stand there calm, steady, and respectful, and the whole room could see it.

The difference wasn't the paperwork. It was the man holding it.

That's why I built Unshakable Dad.

Two things have to be ready: your case and you

Most programs only work on the case. Unshakable Dad works on both, over 90 days, with me coaching you live every week.

Your case: the rules, the evidence, a finished declaration, an organized exhibit package, and a plan you can present.

You: staying composed when she pushes your buttons, speaking clearly when the judge looks at you, and handling the stress without blowing up your life (or your case).

Here's your 90 day roadmap

Days 1–30: Reclaim Your Power. Get steady and stop the damage. We stop the reactive texts, the 2 a.m. spirals, and the mistakes that hurt dads before they ever reach court.

Days 31–60: Reclaim Your Voice. Build your case and learn to speak for yourself. Evidence, declaration, and practicing out loud until your voice stops shaking.

Days 61–90: Present Your Plan. Walk in prepared. Your exhibits are packaged, your opening is rehearsed, and you've thought through what the other side will say.

A free tip, right now

When your ex sends you a text designed to set you off, use the one-hour rule: don't answer for one hour. Then answer as if the judge will read it, because one day she might.

That's one tool from Month 1. Unshakable Dad gives you 90 days of them.

Picture this

It's 90 days from now.

The other side says something flat-out unfair about you in court. A few months ago, you'd have exploded.

Now you take a breath. You wait your turn. When the judge asks, you answer calmly, with a declaration that tells the truth about you and your kids, and exhibits that back it up.

I can't promise you what the judge will decide. Nobody honest can. But I can help you become the dad who walks out of that courtroom knowing he showed up as his best self.

Here's everything you get

  • 12 live 90 minute coaching sessions on Zoom with me, one every week, all recorded
  • The 90 day roadmap, so you always know your next move
  • The Personal Power Track, learn to keep calm under pressure in court and out
  • Hands-on declaration and exhibit help, so you finish with a complete package
  • Speaking practice with live feedback, until your opening feels natural
  • 3 months of access to the VIP Program.  My private group of dads in the same fight, so you're never doing this alone at midnight
  • 3 months of access to ALL my video courses: 
  • Child Custody 101 - The overview you need in 20 minutes.
  • Child Custody - The HEART of your battle plan.
  • Child Support - You know she's gonna want child support.
  • Discovery - How to get the proof you need.
  • Evidence - How to USE the proof you got!
  • Objections - How to keep your proof in and hers OUT!
  • Contempt  - When the orders are made, but ignored what you can do.

PLUS YOU GET:

  • BONUS: An Autographed copy of DAD's Child Custody Action Plan  and DAD's Child Support Action Plan

 

Become an Unshakable Dad

  Most dads lose custody because the judge doesn’t know, like, or trust them — Dad’s Law School teaches you how to change that.

In 90 days, you walk into court knowing the rules, with your evidence organized and a steady voice.

Days 1-30: Reclaim Your Power

 

Get steady and stop the damage.

Days 31-60: Reclaim Your Voice

 

Build your case and learn to speak for yourself in court.

Days 61-90: Present your plan.

 

Walk in prepared and present your plan.

Ricky M.

I won 50/50 custody this morning. My 6 year old was so happy to hear that dad got us more days together. I can't thank you enough for what this mean to me.

Matthew M.

I'd like to reach out and thank you. Your videos, books, and advice showed me patience, and knowledge I never had and after 6 years of courts, today I was granted primary care of my 8 year old son.

Lavelle C.

Thank You! I remember being in your Saturday meetups and your book really helped. I've been at this, and today I got more time! 

What is the Unshakable Dad Program?

 

Everything you need to go from overwhelmed to prepared, in one 90 day program.

 

It's just $297 a month for 3 months.

That's it. 

Then You're Done.

No more payments.

 

90 days of focused preparation

We meet every week by Zoom so you are not lost, scared,  and alone the night before court.

90 minute weekly sessions

Enough time to go deep, ask questions, and work through the real stuff that matters.

Behind-the-scenes legal insight

You work with David and his 27 years of experience to see how he looks at a case, and prepares for court.

Personal Power Track

Build composure under pressure, in court and out.

Brotherhood of Dads

A private group of dads in the same fighting the same battle.

A stronger way to walk into court 

Not perfect. Not magic. Prepared. Capable. Clear. Head held high.

Become an Unshakable Dad

"This is not about turning you into a lawyer in 90 days

That is not the promise.
The promise is better than that.

This is about helping you become a prepared version of yourself before you walk into family court. A dad who understands what he is doing. A dad who has thought through his case. A dad who has structure and can face the judge knowing he did the work.

If your hearing is within 90 days, the clock is ticking. You don’t need another internet rabbit hole. You NEED a  plan. Now let’s build the plan with a guide.”

 

- David Pisarra, Esq.  

 This 
Is for You If ...

  • You’re a dad forced into a custody case.
  • You’re ready to put in the work for 90 days.
  • You are representing yourself in court.
  • You feel overwhelmed and don't know where to start.
  • You want to understand the process and speak for yourself.
  • You want to show up calm, prepared, and clear-headed.
  • You want to know you did everything you could for your kids.

You're an action taker. A man who prides himself on 'making his own way' and taking charge of your life. You know what  you can do and will make it happen.

Don't Leave Court with Regret...

  • "I could have done a better job on my papers."
  • "I wish I'd put in more effort."
  • "I should have been more ready."
  • "I didn't know what to say when it mattered most."
  • "I forgot to bring the document that could have helped."
  • "I let my emotions get the better of me."
  • "I wish someone had helped me prepare for this."

Nobody can promise you a result in family court. But you can control how prepared you are. The Unshakable Dad is built so you never have to walk out of court feeling regret.

Your kids don’t need a perfect dad.
They need an unshakable one.

 Unshakable Dad, Union of Dads, and Dad’s Law School provide general legal education, not legal advice, and do not create an attorney-client relationship. Results depend on the facts of each case.

Become an Unshakable Dad

FAQ's

Standard Legal Disclaimer - Hey I'm a Lawyer - what did you expect? 

Dad's Law School, the VIP Program, the Unshakable Dad, & The All Rise! Bootcamp— Legal Disclaimer

Dad's Law School, the VIP Program, the Unshakable Dad and The All Rise! Bootcamp programs provide legal education and information only. Nothing offered through this program — including webinars, coaching calls, courses, community discussions, templates, or written materials — constitutes legal advice, and nothing here should be relied upon as a substitute for advice from a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction who has reviewed the specific facts of your case.

No Attorney-Client Relationship. Your enrollment in the VIP Program, the All Rise! Bootcamp, private consultations, participation in webinars or coaching sessions, membership in the community, or any communication with David Pisarra or the Dad's Law School team does NOT create an attorney-client relationship. No attorney-client relationship will exist unless and until you sign a separate, written retainer agreement with David Pisarra, Esq. Information you share within the program is not protected by attorney-client privilege.

California Only. David Pisarra is licensed to practice law solely in the State of California. He is not licensed in any other state or jurisdiction, and nothing in this program should be construed as legal advice regarding the laws of any state other than California. Family law varies significantly from state to state; always consult an attorney licensed in your jurisdiction before making decisions about your case.

This Is Not a Law School. Despite its name, Dad's Law School is not an accredited law school, degree-granting institution, or bar-approved program of legal study. Completing this program will not make you a lawyer, will not qualify you to practice law, and will not make you eligible to sit for the bar exam in California or any other state.

No Guarantee of Results. Every case is different. Past results and educational examples do not guarantee or predict the outcome of your matter. In Family Law, literally ONE fact can change EVERYTHING.

By joining in the VIP Program, Unshakable Dad, and/or The All Rise! Bootcamp, you acknowledge that you have read, understood, and agreed to this disclaimer.